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What to Know Before High School: Why Middle School Choices Matter

Cheryl MaguireBy Cheryl MaguireSeptember 8, 20265 Mins Read
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When I went to college, most people didn’t start planning for it until high school. Things have changed over the last thirty years.

My oldest daughter always excelled in math, but her middle school didn’t place her on the advanced track. By the time I found out the track existed, she was already behind, even though she qualified. She had to play catch-up by doing extra work over the summer and staying after school.

She ultimately succeeded, scoring a 5 on her AP Calculus AB exam and tutoring math in college. But had we known about the pathway earlier, she could have taken AP Calculus BC in high school too, potentially saving time in college and allowing her to focus more on her career path. 

To help families plan with confidence, I spoke with experts about middle school course options and ways students can prepare for high school and beyond. Here’s what you need to know to find the best fit for your child’s long-term goals. 

Why Planning Early Matters

Middle school was once just a transition period before high school. Today, it’s a time for students to begin exploring future career paths and building their academic foundation.

In Stafford County Public Schools, those developing interests often point students toward two specialized high school tracks: the IB (International Baccalaureate) and STAT (Stafford Academy for Technology) programs.

According to David Heinemann, director of college counseling at Fredericksburg Academy, colleges value the IB track because of its consistency. 

“Colleges like IB programs for the most part because they are standardized, so colleges have a good sense of what the students are learning and how they will be prepared for college,” he said. 

If a student’s interests lean more toward STEM than global liberal arts, STAT is the alternative. 

“The STAT programs are designed to promote science and technology,” Heinemann added. 

Course choices matter, but middle school is also a time for building foundational skills. 

“Mapping out a plan early ensures those long-term goals stay within reach,” said Fredericksburg local Jessica Hinrichs, a sixth-grade counselor at Virginia Virtual Academy.

Math is one of the clearest examples of why early planning matters because each course depends on the one before it. 

“Math is sequential, so what a student does in middle school determines how far they can go in high school,” said Heinemann.

In other words, students can’t take a class like AP Calculus BC without taking the classes that lead up to it. 

Heinemann recommends taking Algebra 1 by eighth grade to stay on track for high school calculus. For students aiming even higher, such as Calculus 2 or AP Calculus BC, he suggests taking Algebra 2 while still in middle school.

Building Skills for Future Careers

It can be hard for students to figure out how to stay on track academically while still exploring new options. Fortunately, they don’t need to lock into a single path in middle school.

Instead of focusing solely on a rigid course load, Hinrichs suggests turning to outside interests.

“One way students can focus on career goals, while leaving room in their schedules for honors and advanced coursework, is to look for extracurricular opportunities related to their career interests,” she said.

A great deal of learning also happens outside the classroom through after-school sports, clubs and volunteer work.  During this time, students can build real-world skills like leadership, communication and how to interact with both peers and adults.

“Joining clubs, teams and service organizations is a low-risk way to explore new areas of interest,” said Hinrichs.

Heinemann suggested that students try speech and debate, which is the national term for competitive public speaking and argumentation. This activity improves a student’s ability to research, build a solid opinion and defend it under pressure. It also forces students to look at an issue from multiple viewpoints. 

“I can’t stress enough the importance of activities outside of the classroom,” Heinemann said.  “Give opportunities for that exploration, but make sure that you allow your child to lead the way as her or his interests develop.” 

What to Ask Your School Counselor This Year

School counselors can be a valuable resource as families begin thinking about middle school course choices. They help students map out a plan that keeps future options open without forcing them to choose a single path too early.

“School counselors are here to help students find their balance and solve problems when faced with obstacles,” said Hinrichs.

Starting these conversations early can help families better understand course options, academic pathways and opportunities for growth. To build a balanced schedule for your middle schooler, here are the questions experts suggest asking:

  • What are the high school math tracks, and what classes should I take now to qualify for them?

  • If I want to take honors or advanced courses in high school, what should my middle school schedule look like right now?

  • What sports, clubs or volunteer opportunities best align with my current interests?

  • Is there a speech and debate or forensics team at this school, or are there regional clubs I can join?

  • Are tryouts required for sports? What is the expected time commitment, and are there additional costs involved?

  • Does the school offer career aptitude tests?

  • If I’m not sure what I want to focus on yet, what mix of classes do you recommend?

  • How can I use my elective choices to explore a specific field without committing to a full track?

Cheryl Maguire is an award-winning freelance journalist covering topics related to travel, science, mental health and parenting. She holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, National Geographic, The Washington Post, The Boston Globe, AARP, AAA, Business Insider and many other publications. She is an active member of SATW. You can find her on Bluesky @CherylMaguire

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Cheryl Maguire is an award-winning freelance journalist with a master’s degree in counseling psychology. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, National Geographic, Parents and other publications. She is a mother of three and is the founder and leader of the Society of American Travel Writers’ Family Travel Affinity Group.

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